Tuesday, June 16, 2009

Calling your baby Chastity is just asking for trouble

I somehow think that naming your baby as Chastity is just flirting with trouble. Cher's daughter is undergoing a sex change to become a man.

Chastity Bono, 40, the singer's only daughter, started the process earlier this year and wants to be called Chaz.

Referring to his client as 'he', publicist Howard Bragman said: 'Chaz, after many years of consideration, has made the courageous decision to honour his true identity.

CHASTITY BONO, daughter of the late singer Sonny Bono and Cher.

Chaz Bono

Chastity in '93  and today Miss Bono is well on her way to becoming Mr Bono

'He is proud of his decision and grateful for the support and respect that has already been shown by his loved ones.

'It is Chaz's hope that his choice to transition will open the hearts and minds of the public regarding this issue, just as his "coming out" did nearly 20 years ago.'

Miss Bono, 40, whose father is Cher's late ex-husband Sonny Bono, came out as a lesbian at age 18, when she was studying at New York University.

While Sonny was more accepting, Cher reacted badly.

The 63-year-old star has admitted: 'I flipped out. I'd always had this idea that she would get married and have a family.'

Distraught by her mother's reaction, Miss Bono abandoned her studies to attempt a rock career.

Cher Chastity Bono Hollywood 2008

Family ties: Chastity and her mother Cher in Hollywood last year

Her sexuality was announced to the world in an American newspaper in 1990.

Five years later she appeared on the front cover of gay magazine The Advocate, describing herself as 'out at last', and became a vocal advocate of gay and transgendered rights.

 

Changing gender typically involves hormone therapy and sometimes, but not always, some surgical alteration.

Gay leaders yesterday hailed Miss Bono's decision to have a sex change as courageous.

Neil Giuliano, president of the Gay and Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation, said: 'Chaz Bono's decision to live his life authentically represents an important step forward, both for him personally and for all who are committed to advancing discussions about fair-and equality for transgender people.

'Coming out as transgender is an extremely personal decision and one that is never made lightly. We look forward to hearing Chaz's story in his own words in the future.'

Miss Bono, who appeared with her parents on their early 1970s TV series The Sonny and Cher Comedy Hour, has had a famously fraught relationship with her mother.

The pair fell out over her 1998 tell-all book Family Outing, which revealed details of their troubled relationship.

In it Miss Bono claimed she incurred Cher's wrath from an early age by wearing tomboy clothes and refusing to invite girls to her birthday parties.

She said her mother terrified her and sent her to a series of psychiatrists. Miss Bono also revealed that her mother once caught her in a clinch with a female college friend, but refused to accept that her daughter might be gay.

And when Cher found out her daughter was a lesbian she apparently ordered her out of her New York apartment and told her to 'see a shrink'.

In a later interview she said: 'My mum did not comfort me with kisses and cuddles. It was not the family way.'

Miss Bono's rock career sank, with her band Ceremony splitting up in 1993 after their debut album flopped.

She also failed as a film producer and became a recluse, battling an addiction to the painkiller OxyContin which saw her attend rehab in 2004.

She has also battled with her weight. After ballooning to 21stone she appeared on the U.S. version of the TV show Celebrity Fit Club.

In recent years, Miss Bono and her mother have put aside their differences and improved their relationship.

Sonny Bono, who split with Cher in 1974, died in a skiing accident in 1998.

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